We’ve all heard the cliches, “Nice Guys Finish Last,” and “Girls like Bad Boys.” It’s easy to agree with these and say to yourself, “If I’m a dick, then I’ll get the girl,” but let’s start to think deeper. Both of these distinctions leave out the “Real Man.” Men shouldn’t try and be the nicest, or the meanest, we should simply live right and let the rest take shape. Let’s examine the three types of guys we are talking about here.
Nice guys are just that, nice guys. These are the guys that bend and break for women thinking it will get the girl to like them. The nice guy is always there to drive the girl he’s never slept with home, to hear her problems and give her a shoulder to cry on, but he’s not getting laid. The nice guy tends not to stand up for himself, he just agrees and takes the girls bullshit because that’s all he knows how to do. Why do Nice guys finish last? The answer varies from case to case but the underlying problem remains the same. Nice guys are too big of pussies. Women want someone who will contest them, not bow down to them. Women are wired to be attracted to confident men, who’s lives don’t revolve around a girls. Nice guys finish last because women know they can have the nice guy whenever they want. The cat doesn’t want to chase the mouse that doesn’t run at all. The shame is they finish last, and some don’t realize that there is a race going on.
These guys have no morals, they cheat, they lie, they steal to get women. They are cocky, continually hyping themselves up. They have elaborate back stories and bags of lies to tell women, and for the most part women eat it up. These are the guys responsible for making it so hard for decent guys to find women. This is because most women have been toyed around at least once in their lives by a bad boy. These guys do get women, but I question their methods. They do better than the nice guy, but in the end their lies come out.
“What’s done in the dark, always comes to the light” – Anonymous
These are the men that ultimately win in life. They treat women with respect, but they aren’t pussies. These guys pursue women because they need them, they pursue women when they want them. Real Men don’t get caught up in a web of lies, they just do they’re thing and let everything else fall into place. These guys are confident, not cocky…it’s important to realize this distinction. Cocky guys brag, and are out right douchey. Confident guys let others do their bragging, they are sure of themselves. When women find a real man they lock it up for the long haul if they’re smart. Real Men will stand up to women if they are being outrageous, but they will also be there for them undoubtedly.