1.‘PSSSST.’ This is not the appropriate way to try and “pick up” a woman. PSSST is not classy, it does not showcase any kind of vocabulary skills, and furthermore it’s creepy. Men please try and use real words and not just sound effects to express your emotions. Whistles/catcalls/and cheesy pick up lines are out. No woman will take you seriously with that approach. First impressions are everything, so try and engage the ladies with genuine conversation. Maybe even crack a joke or two and you’ll quickly see how this will improve your game.
2. ‘THE HONK.’ It’s common knowledge that some men tend get a little horn-happy when they see a beautiful woman walking down the street. Now in some cases an innocent honk may boost a woman’s confidence, and you may even get a smile in return. The problem arises when one chooses to pull over and slowly drive alongside said beautiful woman. This is a huge no-no. In your eyes it may seem like the perfect opportunity to start a friendly conversation and maybe even get the digits. But from a woman’s perspective this is the time when she needs to:
a) is getting ready to run away or
b) casually reaching in her purse for a can of mace.
A drive-by is a scary situation for anyone to find themselves in. Please do not attempt this maneuver, as innocent as your intentions may be. You will be labeled a creeper, and that label is very hard to shake.
3. ‘Creeping.’ Or in other words invading her social media space. Ever come across a photo of a beautiful woman via a friend-of a-friend’s Facebook page? Ever had the urge to ‘poke her’ or send a private message? If so, please keep that thought to yourself. Men, right off the bat you’re admitting you have nothing better to do then lurk a random girl’s Facebook/Instagram/Twitter profile. Instead of taking the easy way out, how about talking to that friend of a friend? See if there is a neutral gathering that the special girl may be attending. Use that connection to your advantage. Nothing is better than a glowing reference from someone that beautiful girl trusts.
4. Personal Space. Please abide by the rule of personal space. Guys, even if you don’t mean it in an aggressive way, getting too close, too fast to a new lady can only lead to trouble. If a beautiful girl walks past you, please refrain from grabbing her arm or anywhere on her body else for that matter. I cannot stress how important words are when trying to woo that special girl. And on that note, if you are in a nightclub and want to show off your skills on the dance floor to avoid looking like a total creeper please do not approach a woman from behind and expect her to just comply and grind on a complete stranger. Ask her to dance, if the music is too loud and she can’t hear you—use sign language to communicate what you want.
5. Eye Contact. When engaging conversation in with a woman it is very important to maintain eye contact. And by eye contact, I literally mean look her in the eyes. Don’t stare, but don’t get caught with wondering eyes. During the initial pick up the booty and the breasts are off limits, women don’t want to feel like a piece of meat. Do not stare at her with lust in yours eyes and worst of all do not lick your lips. You may think you look sexy, like a modern day LL Cool J. But FYI you’re only making yourself look super sleazy. Try dropping an innocent comment about her eyes or smile and notice what a world of a difference it makes.
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